Showing posts with label Life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Life. Show all posts

2014/10/07

Random Capture ... At Wan Chai, Hong Kong


就算示威有多亂, 生活如常。
Regardless how worst the situation is, we are still living like we used to.

2014/10/02

Inspiration ... What's happening in Umbrella Revolution? & So What's next?


" A freedom fighter learns hard way that it is the oppressor who defines the nature of the struggles and the oppressed is often left no recourse but to use methods that mirror those of the oppressor. At a certain point, they can only fight fire with fire" - Nelson Mandela

That is something which really touched my nerve when I read Long Walk To Freedom. The Umbrella Revolution reminds me of that quote.


As a Hong Konger, I am so proud of being involved in this "Revolution". We fight for "Real Democracy" through demanding for "Real Universal Suffrage". Several months ago, when discussing with my friends, I commented that Occupying Central would hardly happen. I underestimated it. There are a lot of things to be blamed, mourned for - unreasonably high housing prices, barbarian Chinese conquering HK...... People later on believe that selecting our own Chief Executive will be the only solution. Well, isn't it?

Even we have a new CE selected by local people, what's next? We still do not solve the fundamental problem - We Lack The VISION. WE NEED SOME GROUPS, LEADERS LEADING HK TO NEXT LEVEL, NOT JUST UNIVERSAL SUFFRAGE.

Tearing HK people apart is not the correct direction. We need to be together and have same direction. That's the right approach.

I am so afraid that we are repeating the history - 4th of June, 1989. That's exactly the same. WE NEED PEACE AND LOVE IN HK.

2014/09/17

Inspiration ... 9 Ways of How Family Should be in 21st Century



1. Each of the family member focuses on their own tablet/ smartphone during family gathering
2. We talk a lot in the family Whatsapp group instead of phoning each other
3. Even my mum / dad has Facebook account ( Maybe they stalk me sometimes)
4. When family members are at home, we normally do not talk except during dinner time. (Because everybody is playing on their own tablet / smartphone again)
5. 2 yr-old son/ daughter/ cousin is an expert in Angry Bird. However, he/she doesn't know how to play hide-and-seek.
6. We share photos on Facebook, Whatsapp. Sometimes we share the photos in slideshow on TV screen during family gathering, but no more photo album...
7. We still celebrate Mid-Autumn Festival together. It is still the only night that kids can play until 12am officially
8. 90% of the kids in HK financially rely on their parents until 22 years old (Including me... What a shame), or even 30 years old.
9. Watching ridiculous TV Drama from TVB is still our favorite activity after dinner

2014/08/11

Random Capture... At CASA, Sai Kung

I LOVE HIS MUSTACHE SOOOO MUCH! I wonder if he gels it everyday. lol

CASA is a very nice place to chill out with friends. CASA severs tapas and a lot of beers! GOOD FOOD GOOD LIFE!

2014/08/10

Story about swingsnowman ... To the ONE we LOSE



Two days ago, I received a sorrowful news. One of my secondary school classmates passed away due to fire accident. I was so sorry about this. I am not a specially closed friend of him. However, I think I am kind of a big sister to him when we were in the school. It's just like seeing somebody growing up.

Still, the feeling of lossing somebody you know is suffocating, especially you realize he suffered before leaving the world. I really can't imagine how his family deal with this tremendous struggle.

In Asia, we believe in fate or karma. There are a lot of things that we cant fully control on our hands, like meeting the right people, falling in love, working for some stupid company, encountering accidents which you hardly prevent...... When I was a kid, I always think like things can be really under control. But obviously not, you know that God is more powerful than you thought. Here I am not talking about the God from Muslim or Catholic, but the ONE who control our world, life.

So now on I shouldn't be sad, at least he is living in a better world. My boyfriend said " If you want him good, do something good for him. That's how I do for the friends I loss in the Civil War." He is right.

2014/07/20

Inspiration ... HANDMADE#1


Handmade items are always meticulous. It takes time and extra care to complete and refine. You must have own some precious handmade items for sure.

Today, I walked a small sports shop in Mong Kok. As you know that Mong Kok is kind of conquered by some chain sport shops which basically sell the same cheesy sneakers, it is rare to see a small sports shop offering real sports equipment.

In front of it, there was a middle aged man focusing on weaving the net of badminton racket. I think it is my first time to see people weaving the net of racket. My dad once told me that " The handmade weaved net on racket is more durable which help you play better". Therefore, he gave me that as a birthday gift when I was a kid ( Though I am not a good badminton player lol).

Handmade item now is getting rare and rare. It's kind of a treasure which nearly extincts, at least in Hong Kong. Have you found other rare handmade items here?

2014/07/12

WE FIND LOVE #1


Every day you meet thousands of people, some passs by, some stay. If we meet 10,000 people per day, we have 80 years to live. The chance of meeting the only one is ... 0.0000000342465%. Okay, maybe there is another way to do the mathematical calculation, but anyhow we all agree that we merely can find the only one.

Me and Thili. We never thought of being with each other until we did. One of the most unforgettable and funny moment is ...First thing I told him when we first started to be together is ... "It's weird".

We laugh, talk, share, concern, fight, infinitely forgive, embrace, learn...... regardless what races we are. We learn the most beautiful elements in the world.

Love doesn't need to be a fairy tale one. We ALL find  LOVE.

P.S. This photo was taken when we were in Nanjing.... all people take the photo in a blurry style.

2014/07/05

Inspiration ... How / What you think really depends on...?


Well... Talking about thinking, I feel like I am not convincing enough to write a little column like this, as I am not really a logical person. But still, I wanna share about way of thinking.

Here is a little background of me. Apart from being a little blogger here, I of course have a boring routine job, which is not commercial industry. It's something about continuous improvement/ change management in a MNC factory. It's tough but challenging in the mean time. One thing I learnt thoroughly is the change of management style, to be exact it should be leadership style, really makes the change happen.

I and my teammate were debating the leadership style, while she is absolutely an aggressive & challenging & analytic & determined & leader-typed person. Looking at the perseverance in her eyes, listening to her talking about how leadership style should be, I immediately feel like... "wow! "

I told her that I don't have any managerial and leadership style. I don't spend a single second to think about how a leader or manager should be, nor what I will do once I have a team. I am not saying that I am incapable of being at that position, but it's just I am not really a career oriented person ( P.S. I would not write this little blog if I am like that).

Well... you should know that, by far, what I normally think or day dream is about basically about music, style, stylish design, life, relationship, snapshot, childish stuff... Ok... I am a day dreamer. Why do I always think about these areas? When I recall back, I was always exposed to the column, different types of music (chinese and western orchestra, Bee Gees, Pink Floyd, Carol King... plus my mum played Guzheng). I have never thought of something related to work indeed. However, my colleague is raised in the environment which all the seniors give advises related to managerial stuff/ leadership skills.

I just feel like... the way you think, area that you day dream/ think are influenced by your exposure and living environment for sure.

P.S. thanks my colleague, you make me understand myself a bit more.

2014/06/05

Inspiration...NOT TO BE FORGOTTEN


I am not a political expert, neither a patriotic advocate. But I, as a Chinese and a citizen who knows humanity, understand how sacred freedom is especially. Freedom, equality are not gifted rights since your born. That's why we have to stand out to show our respect to the fighters.

2014/06/02

Inspiration ... 20 Things to do with SOUL-MATE when we reach 90


When I see this lovely couple in the mall (PS it's toooooo hot these days... I would only stay at the shopping mall to do Random Capture lol), the following items immediately comes into my mind.

20 Things to do with SOUL-MATE when we reach 90

1. Watch X-man in 3D version together in the cinema ( I believe that Woverine is immortal, there should 500 stories more about him
2. My soul-mate can sails in the sea, we enjoy champagne together on the yacht
3. I can still wear bikini to go to the beach, while my baby would still think that I am the most sexiest GIRL in the world
4. We go to watch the Michel Jackson / Lady GAGA/ Adele/ Bruno Mars tribute concert, while Lady GAGA is still so fashionable that people don't understand what she is wearing
5. I do jogging/ running in the gym, my baby can still lift some weight in the gym
6. We go shopping regularly, not only to the supermarket, but we try different clothing in fabulous boutique/ fashion chain store. Just like the elderly in ADVANCED STYLE
7. We cook together, enjoy cuisine from different nations. We can still have KFC sometimes. We are not afraid of high blood pressure/ diabetes/ heart disease because we cook healthy and delicious food all the time.
8. We have gathering with other elderly friends, just like what we do now.
9. We go for walk every night after dinner with our adopted dogs. Big Big and fluffy DOGSS.
10. We sleep together every night unless I kick you out to the sofa after we have fights.
11. Wake up by your kisses... or some water poured by my naughty soul-mate
12. We go travelling around the world. Make friends with different nationalities, Jamaicans, Brazilians and POLAR BEAR at north pole
13. We still manage our careers, at the same time, we have our own time - Work life balance.
14. People check whether I am officially 80 years old when we pay $2 for the public transportation fee.
15. We go to Disney/ Ocean park often. We feed the dolphins and swim with them.
16. We can still get on the roller coaster. Though it looks scary, but we still manage to overcome it.
17. We are geeks of IT. We would only use Samsung and Apple's products as there are only electrical appliances produced by these two companies. Others will be gone unfortunately.
18. We still go to LKF / SOHO to chilled out, still know the hip pop and party music. We still dance sexily.
19. We take care of our grandsons/ granddaughters. We may teach them how to drink or get stoned if their parents allow us to do so.
20. We still can have good sex just like what we do crazily in our teenage time.

2014/05/28

Random Capture ... When papa and tada walk, they walk in the same way


When papa and tada walk, they walk in the same way.
When is your last time to hold your daddy's hand?